In all relationships, there must be understanding.
You must take time to understand your partner so well, most people just jump into a relationship because of the fun in it, without an in-depth understanding of one another.
This is one of the major reasons for breakups, divorce, emotional trauma, and many others.
Before jumping into any relationship you must understand each other very well, No wonder many people jump from one relationship to another.
As for me,
The answer to the question above is NO
I mean a big NO.
I would never love the part of you I don't understand.
NEVER!!!!
That's why it is very crucial to understand our partners well, we must understand their faults and correct them when necessary.
No wonder many friendships don't work, crucial matters make a partner back out of the bond they shared for a very long period.
What a time wastage!!!
We must understand that not every part of a relationship is about enjoyment, there are ups and downs.
Times when your partner is just emotionally down, that doesn't necessarily mean you should back out, you are needed more at that period.
Let me correct this notion most of us have.
Most times relationship doesn't appear like what most of us watch in movies, they are not all sweet.
Before you jump into any relationship, ensure you show yourself completely.
SHOW YOURSELF COMPLETELY!!!
what do I mean by showing yourself completely??
you must display your total attitude, don't hide anyone of it, rather try to treat the ones you feel are very bad and inform your partner about it.
just like a husband who beats his wife due to anger issues, if he displayed the anger earlier before marriage, the right steps would have been taken
If the husband truly loves his wife as he said before marriage, he must have told the wife about his anger issues, which the wife would have helped control.
And if nothing is changing, after all, it would be advised for the lady to leave the man, because the thereafter would be worse.
The wife might end up being the man's punching bag.
bearing a lot of pain.
Now, you as an individual, never hide any attitude of yours,
NEVER!!!!
Don't say because I don't want to lose him/her now I would hide the attitude, instead display that attitude.
it's better for him/her to understand your true identity before proceeding to a strong relationship where the probability of losing him/her is very high because He/she doesn't have an idea of that attitude you kept from him/her.
let him know who you are instead of acting like a wolf in sheep's clothing.
Be wise!!!
Let your partner know areas where you are strong and areas where you are weak.
He/She can help you sort it out.
Treating a bad attitude takes time, so patience is also needed, you don,t expect the person to change all of a sudden, it's a gradual process.
In conclusion
*Take time to study each other
*understand each other
*Be patient, bad attitudes take time to disappear
#Ayaoba's view
#The king's pride
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